Bitcoiners need to be agile and shift how you interact with the bitcoin network based on fee markets. If you are a bitcoiner that only wants to interact with bitcoin as a taker for blockspace...then high fee markets are gonna suck ass for you and there is nothing to do about that except set a goal to diversify your interaction with bitcoin and be a maker for blockspace as well in such circumstances.

There is no magic to this, just math and the market at hand.