cloud fodder Hey Cloudfodder, I just made my own relay, but having trouble understanding how to make it private and to whitelist only NPUBs that I want to allow to write to the relay. I put my test npub into the moderator section and it saved successfully, however it won't let me write to the relay still with 'Default Message Policy: Deny' as the choice as I believe that makes it a private relay. If you could help me troubleshoot, would appreciate it.

Oh and looks like you are in the PNW too, me too friend glad to meet another PNW freedom tech-er 😄